This year, leading up to PMC weekend, I was on the fence about whether or not I would be riding. I was convincing myself that I didn't have the time, that life was too busy, and that I just couldn't make it work.

Then, a few weeks ago Hsisuai and I had dinner with Linda, a dear mentor of mine. She had just finished a grueling, three-round fight against three different cancers…and shortly after that dinner, Linda made the decision to ride in this year's PMC. After she let me know, I knew I would be doing the same. Her strength is a powerful reminder. The fight against cancer cannot afford a day off, so why do I deserve one?

With that, I made the decision that I would spend this upcoming weekend riding the 192 miles for the 9th time, with my motivation stronger than ever.

I ride again this year, as I have since her passing, in loving memory of Trish (November 18, 1994 - July 3, 2022). A few short years ago, we said our final “see you laters” to her, and I was at a complete loss for words. The reason now seems obvious: there are no words to truly convey how much she means to my sister, my family, and all who had the opportunity to know her.

To borrow a few words from my sister, Trish was the most resilient, selfless, beautiful, caring person. She knew how to effortlessly brighten up every room she walked into, making every person feel so special. She was brave, strong, and always found a reason to smile while going through the toughest times. Trish spent her 27 years truly making the world a better place. We are so lucky to have known her.

Unfortunately, it seems as though every year Hsisuai and I learn of more family or friends who have been impacted by cancer. The perseverance of those fighting and the strength of their family and friends supporting them are important reminders as to why I take on this challenge every year.

In my continued absence of words, I will be pedaling my way through the miles of PMC weekend to honor Trish's memory and to help fuel the research that will someday create a world without cancer. I am doing what I can—a small part—to join the fight against the disease that takes far too many, far too soon.

Thank you for joining me in this mission. The PMC is an incredible organization, and the impact of your donation is felt tangibly by cancer patients and their families every single day. 100% of your gift will go directly to cancer research and patient care at the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute.